topaz
11/3/2010 8:08:00 AM
On Nov 3, 3:38 am, abe slaney <abesla...@yahoo.com> wrote:
> On Nov 3, 3:25 am, topaz <topazgal...@gmail.com> wrote:
> And you are upset about my
>
> > suggestion for some Chamomile tea? (shakes head in amazement)
>
> I am not "upset" about anything. I'm having a very nice evening.
> It's quite chilly, the trees have gone from gold to brown now. It
> smells like smoke outside. My dog will wake up and want to go out as
> soon as I stand up from this chair. It's 3 in the morning after my
> birthday. I am not upset, I just think your "calming tea"
> recommendations are insincere posturing.
OK, I believe I understand your opinion. I would respectfully disagree
with my statements on calming tea being 'insincere posturing',
however, you are entitled to your opinion.
You see Abe, there are some people here who feel that the way to
deal with disagreement is to argue with the other person name for
name, blow by blow like two rams butting heads.
I think there are one or two people here who really enjoy that direct
confrontation and even create it where it does not exist.
For myself, I have found with some people that using some 'verbal
aikado' is a more reasonable approach in some situations. I think it
'keeps the peace' more than blow by blow confrontation in some
situations. There are some people here who just want a good fight,
and when they do not get that direct confrontation from me they get
upset. That is not my problem.
I hope you had a fantastic birthday and may more to come. Enjoy
your walk with your dog.