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I just had my baby shower and it was a disaster.Well not entirely, my sister and aunt did work pretty hard on it and i'm thankful for that.The center peices on the tables were great.There were a few books in the center of each table on a cute piece of wrapping paper and they were adorned with little stuffed animals and strewn with ribbons.My sister and aunt also did wonders with the food, baby sandwhiches, lots of fruit and a chocolate fountain, little ordorves, and the cake was beautiful.A woman that my fiance works with made the cake for me, she does it proffessionally and it was really impressive.My sister also did a great job planning games for the shower and my neices made the most adorable homemade chocolates and decorated them in little bags for party favors.

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Basically my own mother savataged it.I gave them(My sister and mother)A list of people to invite about a month before hand.My sister made up evites for all the people i had email addresses for and my mother was supposed to call and invite the 12 people i only had phone numbers for and was supposed to mail invitations that i made and gave to her to my aunts on my fathers side, a whopping four envelopes she had to stuff.Well, i spoke to my fiances brother in law 1 week and 2 days before my shower and found out they never got a phone call from my mother to invite them.So i got on the phone right then and called everyone that was on the list myself.It was really embarressing calling to invite people to my own shower.After calling everyone i looked at the time, it took a whole 25 minutes and i had entire conversations, weather kids etc, with a couple people.I should have known not to count on her and did know that's why she was only assigned to call a few people.Then on fathers day 7 days before my shower my fathers asks why i didn't invite his sisters.What!I felt so bad that they hadn't been invited.My sister called all of them the next day for me and i found out later that my mom called them at ten at night the same day.Then she has the nerve to be upset with us about it cause she found out then that we called everyone already.

Long story short, as most of those people were given very short notice only 2 of 4 of my aunts showed up and none of the other 12 people showed up that were called.I've still gotten gifts from those people and am still recieving them but that's not the point.I would have much prefered they been there.On top of that my mom was really pushy the whole time.I was in the middle of a conversation with a co worker and my mom grabs my arm and says"Take your chair to the gift table and start opening the gifts".That pissed me off and embarrased me.Were we in a hurry?It's not like they were going to get up and walk off.Apparently though my mom was in a hurry, she had to go meet her boyfriend.I didn't even get a gift from my mother, not that it matters really i'm not that shallow, but she did ask what i wanted a couple months before hand and i pointed out a bedding set i found online that i wanted.She said okay i'll probably just give you money to purchase it.Well the shower came and went and no card, no gift, nothing.I do have to give her credit though.She did contribute a vegetable tray.

Jwills i read that you're going to have your shower here soon.I'm very excited for you!They are fun or at least are supposed to be.Also opening the gifts and seeing all the cute baby clothes really makes it set in so to speak.I hope yours is great and you get all the things you need.

Omg your post made me so nervous!I am not on good terms with my mom right now, and the only thing i took care of was the invitations.They were planning on inviting people that i havent spoken to in years.Bratty, i know, but [URL=http://le...]Louis Vuitton Bags uk[/URL] i couldnt help it.Plus, i wanted to make sure that close friends were invited.I know my sister will do great with the decorations, food, etc.But i am worried that my mom will be the same way yours was!Especially now that i am pissed at her(Reasons i wont get into).

Well, im glad to hear that your sister and your aunt came through for you to throw you a fantastic shower!Its a shame that your mom couldnt have been more on top of things, epesically since she only had such a minor thing to take care of!And not even a card? !Omg!I think i would have broke down and cried in front of everyone!

Just out of curiositydid you tell her how you felt?Or are you like me and let it boil up inside of you?

Thanks for the good wishes!I just want everyone to be able to come.I have a really small list of things i need, so i am not expecting a whole lot.I have most of the major stuff(Crib, changing table, dresser, etc).There is a bunch of stuff that i want, but i have to be careful cause i have limited space lol.

What kind of stuff did you receive?Did you [URL=http://le...]Louis Vuitton Sale[/URL] get most of what you wanted/needed?

I gave up years ago trying to tell my mom how i feel.It just turns into a huge battle where she berates me and points out my flaws and then won't talk to me and will talk about me to the rest of my family.Currently my mom and sister are fighting/ not talking.My mom came to my sisters house with a list, yes i mean a written list of things to attack her about.Such as, she didn't plan anything for her on mothers day.Uh my sister tried to take my neices to her house to visit and take her a gift, but my mom was"Napping" (Code for she was with her boyfriend).Also my sister has three kids and celebrates that day too.Her family planned a special dinner for her.I had my mom over for dinner on mothers day and really it wasn't even me it was my fiance who cooked and basically decided to have her over i just went along with it and got her a card.My sister came by when we were having dinner and gave her a really nice gift.

That was just one of many things my mom listed.Now they aren't talking and my mom will say things like she's just being really judgemental.Uh she's not but if she were she and everyone else would have alot of ammunition.Like my 16 year old pregnant sister.Maybe if my mom didn't let her do whatever she wanted without any real consequences she wouldn't be.For instance my sister smokes.When i was caught smoking i was in big trouble.My mom's reasoning for doing nothing,"It didn't stop you from doing it".Well no it didn't but i had enough respect to not do it anywhere near her or her house.So in her mind it's better to just do nothing and let her do it.Maybe she wouldn't be completely disrespectful to everyone, maybe she would never had been arrested for shoplifting, or knocked up now if my mom had done a little more disciplining.

Sorry for the ranting.I've just found it's better to ignore it than say anything to her.Eventually her and my sister will talk again, which basically means my sister will tolerate her presence.Then it will be my turn for a list.I think i'll just start my own list though to throw at [URL=http://fordhamjoi...]polo ralph lauren[/URL] her when she comes to me.

I really hope your mom won't be as bad as my has been jwills.I was like you i just wanted people to come.I too had most of the major stuff.I mostly got clothes, blankets, books, sheets, diapers.I got a couple crib soothers, the things that play music and light up.I'll have to take one back.I also got a really nice infant swing to toddler rocker and a nice contemporary art mobile.Also a baby monitor, a jumper that hangs in the door, two bouncing seats that also convert to toddler rocking chairs, got to take one of those back too, and probably more stuff i can't think of now.I got most everything i wanted or needed which was great.I'm sure we'll get alot of use out of it all.I do still need some things, grooming items like clippers, shampoo, etc.But nothing major.

I really hope your shower is great and everyone gets invited.My sister and aunt really came through and i am greatful for that.I guess i'm just sore because you'd think the on person that would want to come through for me would be my mom and she was the one person that didn't.I hope you get everything you need and have lots of fun!

Im sorry that things with your mom were less than stellar.I have a funny feeling that it will end up like that for me too.It sounds like you got lots o' stuff though i put a few things on my registry, but i am worried because some of the things are pricey.Do people put things like motrin, mylicon, etc on their baby shower registries?Here is what i have so far:I put the stoller/carseat combo(By graco), a Boppy pillow, moniters, snowsuit thingy, items from the Fisher Price Rainforest Collection(Swing, bedding, lamp, bath center, mobile, soother, diaper bag and fleece blanket).Oh, and i put one of those swaddle blankets too(I think it was by swaddle me or something like that).Do people put things like bibs/burp cloths/wipes/diapers/etc?This whoel registry thing is tough!

I registered at babies r us as 1)You get $10 dollars off any purchase just for registering and 2)Whatever you register for you get 10% off after the baby's born if you don't get it at your shower.So given the 10% off deal i registered the whole store!I would go ahead and register for the motrin, mylicon, bibs/burp cloths/wipes/diapers/etc just to give people lots of options as far as gifts and price range.People will likely get you some of those things any way even if you don't register for them, especially the bibs as alot of sleepers come with bibs and hats.I also registered at target.I registered there first cause i thought babies r us would be expensive and then i registered at babies r us just to get the $10 off a purchase.I then found they really were comparable in price to target and the 10% off thing so i went nuts with it.
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